Cheats

this is one of those topics that usually touch many a raw nerve. One of our readers actually inspired this post by a comment she recently posted *coco user go to hell i hate u with a passion!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
uliniibia bwana yangu ukimutolea hiyo meno.by the way am goin to act on you.leave my husband alone.
y do you kip calling him every day?*so how exactly do you/should you go about handling a situation where you find out that your partner is cheating or cheated on you? That’s the big question

i would like to throw in my two cents – please don’t take this personally as my comments aren’t targeted at anyone- so with that out of the way, lets get started.

1.Should you tell your partner or spouse about it? HELL NO!! Honestly I think it all depends on the underlying factors, let me explain further.
How long have you been together? If the relationship is starting, do tell. I believe if your in a new relationship and you’re already cheating, that’s not a good sign of things to come. And honesty is the only way to go.

On the other hand if you’ve been together for long (as in years) I think you oughta keep mum -as long as it doesn’t happen AGAIN- my reasoning is most probably this will hurt your partner and its not worth it. But should it be a recurring thing, END the relationship because there’s nothing worse than a cheat and a liar.

2.If you get cheated on, and this happens with ladies mostly (I think, from personal experiences), don’t go opening -or threatening- to open a can of whoop ass on the other chick/guy. I find such actions pitiful, because in all honesty if your man/woman want the other man/woman no good will come out of pulling hair by the roots, it won’t change the fact that the want is there. If you want to go all out, take it out on YOUR partner -what the hell were they thinking- plus the other party might also be deceived by YOUR partner.
Let me not rant to much, what are your thoughts on the above or which other issues would you like to be addressed by the readers? Please keep your comments honest coz your post might be helping someone out there.