December 12, 2007 at 12:45 pm 1 comment

this is one of those topics that usually touch many a raw nerve. One of our readers actually inspired this post by a comment she recently posted *coco user go to hell i hate u with a passion!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
uliniibia bwana yangu ukimutolea hiyo the way am goin to act on you.leave my husband alone.
y do you kip calling him every day?*so how exactly do you/should you go about handling a situation where you find out that your partner is cheating or cheated on you? That’s the big question

i would like to throw in my two cents – please don’t take this personally as my comments aren’t targeted at anyone- so with that out of the way, lets get started.

1.Should you tell your partner or spouse about it? HELL NO!! Honestly I think it all depends on the underlying factors, let me explain further.
How long have you been together? If the relationship is starting, do tell. I believe if your in a new relationship and you’re already cheating, that’s not a good sign of things to come. And honesty is the only way to go.

On the other hand if you’ve been together for long (as in years) I think you oughta keep mum -as long as it doesn’t happen AGAIN- my reasoning is most probably this will hurt your partner and its not worth it. But should it be a recurring thing, END the relationship because there’s nothing worse than a cheat and a liar.

2.If you get cheated on, and this happens with ladies mostly (I think, from personal experiences), don’t go opening -or threatening- to open a can of whoop ass on the other chick/guy. I find such actions pitiful, because in all honesty if your man/woman want the other man/woman no good will come out of pulling hair by the roots, it won’t change the fact that the want is there. If you want to go all out, take it out on YOUR partner -what the hell were they thinking- plus the other party might also be deceived by YOUR partner.
Let me not rant to much, what are your thoughts on the above or which other issues would you like to be addressed by the readers? Please keep your comments honest coz your post might be helping someone out there.


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  • 1. siobhan  |  January 5, 2008 at 1:31 am

    Absolutely hated what you have said !! But I’m in agreement !! My partner of 10 years continually cheated on me…right up until me finally saying screw you a cple of days ago !! I’d just found out that yet again he’d met some large scottish hairdresser named Carol from an internet chat site ( if you’re reading this really are welcome to him) And if by some small chance Alan Poland of Leighton Buzzard is reading this too …well wouldn’t that just be dandy !! I finally realised that not only was it always my fault that he has wandering testi syndrome.. But that it might even be actually because he simply cannot maintain an adult, physical and emotional relationship !! Although I had previously wanted to kick the crap out of her..and the many others, friends included ( a loose term) I’ve come to the conclusion that I am worth a thousand of him and 10 thousand of the sort of woman who would knowingly hurt another female !!

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